We consider these examples to be “normal” problems of living, perhaps a spiritual unbalance, or a search for greater meaning, or a desire to do things differently, but not mental illness. People struggle to be free, to be who they truly are.

Our belief is that we already have the freedom to choose to be “ourselves,” and to encourage our children to do the same. We believe that health and well-being are profoundly improved when we deal directly with what we are feeling, and learn to celebrate life. On some level we all strive for love, peace, and happiness, though our behavior may not show it.

Not surprisingly, our most common frustrations, as well as our most precious times, stem from our experiences in relationships with other people. Dealing with the issues, and increasing the rewards, of relationship is an art. To some people this comes naturally, but most people really need to learn the knack of it.

Frankly, our culture prepares us poorly for our various roles as spouses, parents, children, lovers, etc. As a result, we frequently have difficulty communicating, having fun, and loving each other, as well as ourselves. Often we can use some help in learning how to communicate more effectively and lovingly.

Traditional therapists are trained to work on the issues of individuals. Marriage counselors focus on stengthening relationships between people by increasing understanding of family roles and life cycles, and developing healthy communication skills between partners.

As Marriage and Family Counselors, the mission of Four Seasons Healing is to help you learn the tools most useful in helping yourself. Rather than giving answers or analyzing your problems we work with you toward increasing your awareness, facilitating your self healing, and nurturing your interpersonal relationships.

As marriage counselors we look at the whole system, even when working with an individual.

Please call us if we can be of help to you.

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